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Responses to the Dreams of the World: Page One
Dear Nicole,
Your dream is too complicated for me to try to interpret without all
your personal associations to the key elements. There are so many
that are clearly personal to you.
Let me guide you so that you can do the analysis.
First, underline the key element or elements in each sentence. Then,
make a list of them. Beside each word, list five associations you
have with the person, thing, or word.
Think about your present life context. What problems or situations
are you thinking about or trying to deal with?
With that in mind, rewrite the dream story substituting the
association that feels right for each element.
You should now have a message from the unconscious that addresses
your life.
It may reflect it or warn you or give you some wisdom.
Since you clearly undestand the significance of dreams, you should do
some work on learning to analyze them. Our video series gives you
some real tools for this work.
Thank you for sharing your dream! DreamWeavers
You need to do your own personal associations with turtles...the
personal associations will control or supercede the more general ones
in the dream dictionary of symbols.
From the Dictionary of Mythology, Folklore, and Symbols:
"Androgyny, endurance, longevity, safety, slowness. In various mythologies a
creator god or world support."
Thank you for sharing your dream! DreamWeavers
Dear Deb,
Such a sad dream! The man screaming with grief because his daughter
is dead..... can you associate this in any way to something going on
in your life: Some mature masculine part of yourself is grieving the
loss of a young female part? Is there anything feminine, a project
or some quality in yourself that has died? If so, a mature masculine
part is grieving! Perhaps you should focus on some conscious
grieving so that this disturbing stuff is not left in the
unconscious.
Thank you for sharing your dream! DreamWeavers
Dear Åsa:
So, behind your ordinary institution is this symbolic university; how
might they be different? What do you associate with "computer" and
"stairs"? Can you get out via the stairs? There is no way out...in
what way might there be "no way out" in the university? The problem
with getting out is the chickens and eggs behind the closet doors
marked with yellow stickers...What do you make of that? What is
hatching in your psyche? Is this hatchery a secret, not out of the
closet? What do you associate with "yellow"? Archetypally, yellow is
the color of consciousness, of intuition. Seems as if the world
outside is too cold for this new life to survive, or at least that is
your imagination about the new chicks. How might you bring this new
life into the world safely? Then you could leave school?
Thank you for sharing your dream! DreamWeavers
Dear Amanda:
Go back through your dream and underline the most important
elements, or unusual circumstances...like the family on a sloping
roof six stories above the ground...and the little girl who is a wooden
doll....Would it be unusual for you to be working as a taxi driver?
Write down your associations to each of the elements and then
substitute the associations for the dream image. For example, if I
associate "wild and free" with taxi driver..I reread the first line
as I am a "wild and free" driver in a strange town. It seems as if
you lose your ability to "drive" when your husband comes aboard? The
family seems to be in a very precarious position....too high up...on
the roof..What would "on the roof" mean to you? They are certainly
not well "grounded"..six stories up? on a slant? They are in a very
dangerous position. The little girl is a wooden doll...What do you
associate with "doll" ? Generally, dolls are just perfect..Remember
how our mothers would say.."be a little doll"..not a real live
person, but a model child? Is this dream child a symbol of your own
inner child, or of your daughter? or both? Does "keeping her eyes
open" refer to needing to stay conscious? You awaken with anxiety
about "the husband's" fall...Does this refer to your fears about your
own husband or about "the husband" in your own psyche? This family
needs to come down to earth..get grounded in reality, as it were. How
might you do active imagination with the wooden doll child and find a
way to let her become a real-live child? Good luck.
Thank you for sharing your dream! DreamWeavers
Dear Diane:
That you dreamed of your son twice this week sounds like
it is unusual and probably points toward some anxiety about him.
What is going on in your everyday life regarding him? What is the
"context" of the dream? In what way do you imagine him to be
"executed"? Write down some associations with the image of
"execution". Is there any reason to believe that your son might
actually be in danger? Now make associations to the number "35.7".
Is that a meaningful age of your son? of you? An "injection" is
something that gets into you, you know...and whatever this substance
is is a lethal dose..it changes, transforms "the son" forever. What
qualities do you associate with your son? What part of yourself does
he symbolize? Numbers in dreams are so mysterious; they seem so very
specific and yet they can sometimes just illude our consciousness.
And "daughter"? What qualities in yourself does she symbolize? She
seems to be so integral in the process.
Thank you for sharing your dream! DreamWeavers
Dear Jessica:
Your dream reminds me of the Janet Jackson video in which she flies from
one great city to another...the Eiffel tower, the pyramids, etc.
What would it be like to go to Chicago, to Boston? Have you been to
those cities? Your dream seems to keep reminding you to slow down.
In what way are you going too fast? I am impressed with your good
sense to make yourself stand up in the dream,,,not just float off
like a feather. You are young and perhaps full of ideas and
fantasies about the world...maybe your dream warns you not to just
"skate" over your interest in things, places, like Chicago and
Boston. Perhaps you could take them in a little more slowly.
Thank you for sharing your dream! DreamWeavers
Dear Rochelle:
Does something "catch on fire" whenever you are with your
father? What gets "ignited" between the two of you? What do you
associate with your father? with "fire"? with "house"? Can you see
how the elements of the dream tell a story? How is this story true
in your life at this time? Is your relationship with your father
this destructive...burns up your "house" or soul? Or does being with
him "fire you up"?
Thank you for sharing your dream! DreamWeavers
Dear Jill:
What does "moving into a smaller house" mean to you? You might think
of the "neighbors" as parts of your psyche which are close at
hand...available to consciousness. "locking the doors" might
symbolize your resistance to some consciousness that wants to be
"talked about". What about the "bad man"? Was there any rape of a
twelve year old girl in your history or your family's history? Is
this symbolic of some feeling of your own femininty being "raped" by
a masculine attitude in your matrilineal heritage? Let yourself
remember and imagine what trauma might have happened to you,
physically and/or psychologically by your grandmother's masculine
side or by someone in her family. Listen to the "gossip" your psyche
wants you to hear..There might be something you need to know.
Driving through the snow might point to an emotional coldness between
you and your husband related to this "bad man" who has done harm to
the 12 year old girl...to the budding feminine. Your dream says that
the "bad man" is now in the car, so you have the opportunity to
become conscious of this force and its harm to you..and free yourself
from it. Hoping that you can find a way to include this forgotten
or unconscious element so that you can find warmth in your marriage.
Thank you for sharing your dream! DreamWeavers
Dear Paul:
This man in the oak is talked about in old alchemical texts..He is
seen as the spirit Mercurius..He is like the "genie in the
bottle"..he is WISE OLD MAN; and you are indeed lucky to have such an
advisor. But you must always question him and not let him trick you
into "never leaving him". Get him to advise you about life and help
you to be more related to life..The tree is a symbol of the Mother
archetype and can keep a man too contained in fantasy and spiritual
musings. At the same time, you have a very important connection to
the wisdom of the ages and to deep spiritual reality through this man
in the tree. Make your conversations with him conscious...Talk to
him in your waking life..Spend some time each day dialoging with him.
Listen to him and write down what he says carefully.
Thank you for sharing your dream! DreamWeavers
Dear Shane:
Yes, your dream might well be an intuition about how the universe
operates...Jung wrote about the dream of a 19th century chemist,
Kekule, who was researching the molecular structure of benzene when
he dreamed of a snake with its tail in its mouth (the age-old
uroboros). Out of that dream he theorized that the structure was a
closed carbon ring and published his data in the Textbook of Organic
Chemistry (1861). The "device" in your dream has a similar
structure...Have you drawn it? The light blue haze around it might
also be instructive as to your feeling about the "device" as well as
point to its luminous quality. Your having oral sex with a woman
also focuses on the vulva, which is a closed oval shaped "device";
and you "get your into it" as it were, albeit with your mouth...Might
that point toward something oral, like speech? Might you also find
yourself substituting science for sex, and vice versa? Might the
sexual imagery draw you toward a need to relate to the feminine? The
world "soul" is imagined as a woman throughout time and space. Paint
the image...both the impersonal "device" and the personal contact.
Thank you for sharing your dream! DreamWeavers
Dear Jenn:
Your nap experience of not being in your body, as it were, is a
common nap experience. It is as if there is a particular dream state
that is between waking and sleeping and in which one does not seem in
one's body. I don't know the name of the state right now, but it is
a common experience.
The dream about your mother drowning and her synchronistic dream
are very interesting. Might she have been in some kind of
emotionally overwhelming situation at the time (drowning)? What does
drowning mean to you? How psychically connected to her are you? We
usually try to concretize a dream on first glance. Try to let it
speak to you metaphorically...what is drowning a metaphor for to
you? What do you associate with your mother? Might those qualities
in you be drowning?
Regarding your house dreams: what do you associate with house?
House is generally a symbol for the Self...I like the book by Claire
Marcus, House As Mirror of the Self. Your houses are empty however.
Perhaps you need to furnish your inner life with more material, more
furniture...more attention to your inner reality. Perhaps the dreams
are inviting you to consider how empty your life might feel? Record
your dreams regularly and pay attention to your own personal
reactions to the events in your life... Or might the dreams
compensate for a life that is too full of external
activity...emphasizing the emptiness of your inner house?
I think you would find the first two tapes in our series helpful: The Language of Dreams and The Method. Also look at Women in Women's Dreams.
Thank you for sharing your dream! DreamWeavers
Dear Kathy:
It would seem to me that a "white out" is very much like a "black
out". And when a dream or the memory of it continues for so long, it
must mean that in some way you have not integrated its message. Do
you remember the next-door trauma being particularly important to you?
Perhaps you could write down what you do remember about that period
of time in your life...try to feel whatever emotions you were afraid
to feel at that time. Wonder what the dream is telling you about the
strange events of your father being asleep and then awake. Asleep
and awake are metaphors for conscious and unconscious generally.
What was your relationship with your father at that time? Did you
have any traumatic event with him? Generally I would think such an
experience would be your psyche's way of "whiting out" some thought,
feeling, or experience which you could not endure at the time. But
now you are older and more able to hold the events of your life, so
perhaps you could bear to "re-member" whatever emotions were so
unbearable when you were a child. One of our tapes is about Men In Women's Dreams; you might find that helpful.
Thank you for sharing your dream! DreamWeavers
Dear Penny:
Next week we are producing a video about
Pregnancy and Birth Dreams. Be sure and watch for it. It is always so uncanny
when we know something in a dream that we could not ordinarily know: the
sex of your baby, for example (even though sonograms now look into the
unseen). You must have been very involved in your pregnancies....and in
your anxiety about the child and your ability to care for it. The first
child is so small..almost a Tom Thumb..such very small or very large babies
often symbolize our experience of the Self...the fully formed center at
our core...a magical child as it were...This baby gets lost in a cold frying
pan in grease...maybe your associations to the image will help you see
how you fear losing touch with your to-be-born baby..There is also and
old saying about pregnancy "what's in the frying pan?", a metaphor
referring to the "cooking up" of a new life with the uterus as
frying pan. The second dream has the baby run over by a car...What do you
associate with "car"? Car refers generally to our motivation,
our energy, our way of getting around...Might you have feared that your
baby would get caught under work or high energy stuff in you? I assume
both babies and you have fared well.
Thank you for sharing your dream! DreamWeavers
Dear J. J.:
That you have started recalling your dreams may be a gift from your
unconscious to help you through what sounds like a difficult period. Are
you feeling depressed? You might want to find some professional help instead
of over-drinking. Sometimes the containment of a therapeutic process can
really make the difference in one's being able to integrate an important
transitional time. Your dream of a former girlfriend might indicate that
you are in a place to relate to the feminine side of yourself (perhaps
to women as well) in a way that you could not earlier. There is this problem
which the dream expresses of "getting together"...symbolizing
a problem of integrating the masculine and feminine sides of yourself.
What might be going on in your life right now that reminds you of your
life situation when you were with this girl? Are you in any similar unconscious
patterns?
You will find helpful information in our tapes about the Women
in Men's Dreams and the tapes about Relationships. Remember that if
alcohol continues to be a problem, AA is perhaps the most helpful source.
You can find a Jungian therapist by calling the C. G. Jung Institute in
L.A. (310-556-1193) or call your local American Psychological Association
and ask for a referral. Good luck!
Thank you for sharing your dream! DreamWeavers
Dear Karol:
How are you like a bookmark? Are you primarily contained in books?
What is your association with bookmark, with "books"? You seem
to "know" the book like one would an old friend, and we sometimes
say that about books. What do you associate with UFOs? ...with the lady
in the quilted green polyester housecoat? ...with the ranch style house?
There is such a lack of life and color in the spaceship. In what way might
you be unconsciously living in a "spacey" kind of way? Or might
the alien ship be a compensation for too much involvement in the mundane
stuff of life? It is as if you can "see into" the house from
the space ship....might you long to see into whatever that house means
to you? There is a sense of a coming change in attitude in the anticipatory
air at the end of the dream. How might you be assertive in initiating some
newness in your life...perhaps instead of wishfully waiting for change?
Or how might you better prepare for anticipated change? How can you begin
to experience yourself as a "person" with a "bookmark",
instead of seeing yourself only as a "bookmark"?
Tape II in our series might be interesting
to you as a way of becoming more of an active agent in your dreamlife.
Thank you for sharing your dream! DreamWeavers
Dear Alisa:
I think you will find our video about snakes
very helpful. In the meantime, what are your associations to "snakes"?
to rattlesnake, in particular? to "pitchforks"? Rattlesnakes
are as poisonous as fear...and as deadly. You have stopped the snake with
the pitchfork, but you were bitten. The image of your boyfriend sucking
out the venom is interesting. Sucking is an archetypal form of healing.
Shamans suck the poison of the evil spirit out of persons...the American
Indians often use sucking in healing rituals. We also suck a wound instinctively.
What do you associate with your boyfriend? What power in you can take away
the poison? That you feel proud of yourself would indicate that you feel
a great deal of accomplishment in conquering the snakes, as indeed one
would. On the other hand, if you are someone who already has too much power,
you may be missing the vitality and renewal that the initiation of the
snake bite could bring.
Thank you for sharing your dream! DreamWeavers
Dear Lane
Such an exquisite fairy tale seems to call for a fairy tale answer....but
I can't think of an appropriate one right now. But there does seem to be
a moral to the story...the maiden and the prince have to be separated before
the chase can end...and the maiden and the evil mother be united...before
the prince can become a silver rooster and pursue her.... Perhaps that
would imply that you need to separate from your idealized image of man
(the prince..prince charming?) in order to experience the protective wings
of the great mother. Silver is the color of the moon..and the feminine
principle..as well as silver coins. What is your relationship with "the
mother"..your own mother and the mother principle in yourself? Does
your own identity with mothering interfere with your relationship with
men? What is your relationship with your own mother? Sometimes we project
the negative side of mothering onto the mother-in-law and have to make
peace with those dark qualities in the mother. I don't know whether the
fairy tale form is a compensation for a too rational approach to live or
a reflection of a too "fairy tale" set of expectations in yourself?
You might read AMOR AND PSYCHE by Eric Neumann which is a tale about a
woman's search for self and in which the "prince" flies off also.
Look at the tape in our series, Men in Womens' Dreams
also.
The duck, the hen and the rooster are all very earthy, domestic birds...which
have been "silverized"...moon-thinking? What do these birds mean
to you, what are your associations with each of them? Good Luck! What if
you write a fairy tale in response to the dream?
Thank you for sharing your dream! DreamWeavers
Dear Elisabeth
What have you imagined in response to the dream thus far? Some dreams
do seem to last a lifetime. That you have held it for so long makes it
a pivotal dream for you. So do some careful personal associations (see
Tape I in our series) and then some active imagination
with the wonderful archetypal images in the dream. Write about your personal
feelings and experiences with : Prague, mouse, lion, Egypt, the mother
woman, the Nile, tidal wave, light blue, the moone and the sun. Now that
is a lot of work.
That the sun is going down and the moon is coming up would make me
wonder if you are (were) not in a psychic space in which you needed to
move more toward a more feminine approach to your life and be less sun-consciousness
in your orientation. They are the two great lights..or symbols of particular
kinds of consciousness. the sphinx, as you probably is a combination of
a woman's head and a lion's body...Why would you need to be contained in
this powerful archetypal image? Might a connection to the feminine principle
give you mlore power..even in an oracular way? What looks at first to be
a mouse, turns out to be a lion..and then a sphinx which has "swallowed"
you. You seem to find peace and rest in the mother-type woman's room...she
gives you the key...the answer as it were to the overwhelm you might have
been feeling at the time (the tidal wave)..You seem so much at rest in
the wisdom of the feminine. Do some active imagination with the sphinx.
See Tape II of our series.
Thank you for sharing your dream! DreamWeavers
Dear Butterfly:
What a beautiful dream! What qualities do you associate with your
cousin? Substitute those associations with "my cousin" in the dream
and see what qualities you need to "make love to" in yourself. See
our tape on WOMEN IN WOMENS DREAMS.
Thank you for sharing your dream! DreamWeavers
Dear Tina:
What a touching dream! You are so young and perhaps terrified of the
kind of negative judgement you would encounter if you got pregnant. In
your dream you imagine actually delivering a baby...and it is both wonderful
and mystical and disgustingly bloody real...placenta and all. There is
a sense of the baby being so beautiful and full of light...and I wonder
if its beauty is to compensate for your feeling that nothing good could
come out of you...and here you have this extraordinary baby! Are you pregnant?
How would your aunt feel about your being pregnant? You go into the forest
to have the baby...is that into the deep unconscious? The dimly -lit pink
room seems so feminine...I wonder if you have some unconscious assumption
that having a baby would make you feel like a real "pink" girl?
Perhaps the dream delivery symbolizes your conflict between the idealization
of what it would be like to give birth and the reality of having a baby...you
have trouble keeping up with it at work and so on. What is the "glass
barrier" between you and your co-worker? Glass might also have to
do with a certain kind of idealized image of how things should be. Do you
know about the glass menegarie in Tennessee Williams play? Within the next
six months, Dreamweavers will release a new tape on PREGNANCY AND BIRTH.
Be sure and watch for it.
Thank you for sharing your dream! DreamWeavers
Good for you! Sounds like you have launched your "baby"! Just
when one feels as if she can really let herself get "in the water"
of her life and writing may feel like play sometimes; but then the fears
come..maybe like big old "gorillas" to threaten the new life.
I wonder if your ego's attachment to the outcome of having some work accepted
feels like gorillas intruding. To work the dream, write down whatever associations
you have to "my baby", "gorilla", and "bedroom".
What do you do in that room? What do you know about gorillas? Jung saw
the gorilla as "natural man", the instinctive, animal side of
us. But our ego demands also sometimes take animal-like proportions of
power, greed, and hunger. It is interesting that you are so able to relate
to that energy in your dream. Is that an imagination about some strength
in yourself that you have not yet known? Is that capacity to take care
of yourself and your creations an accomplished fact for you? Often we see
ourselves behaving in a dream in ways we have heeretofore not known and
the dream allows us to enlarge our sense of self. There is some information
about animals in dreams in Tape II. I think you
would also find useful information about wuch a dream in Tape
IV, Men in Women's Dreams. Congratulations!
Dear Sheri:
Maybe it is synchronistic also that I had not responded to your dream
before we received your friend's dream. Yes, I would say that is synchronistic...now
what does it mean to you that the two of you have a synchronistic experience?
On the one hand it could be a sense of heightened awareness of each other,
on the other hand it could be an unconscious merger between you. Jung talked
about synchroniscity as "acausal reality"...coincidences which
are just so. In the psyche time and space are blurred... one can be in
a house that is a combination of childhood home and futuristic planned
home...be both a child and an adult at the same time. I am most struck
in your dream by the goddess-like, maybe wise-old-woman who says "it
is done", as if this accident is a fait au compli. It is as if your
life in the green van with your friend withstands the "crash"
of all the enormous energy carriers around you and your parents' home.
I wonder what your realtionship with your parents' home is? Is it time
for it to be done with? Is there a great conflict that is inevitable? What
qualities do you associate with this "best friend"? Might this
dream signal a necessary crash of your connection to your parents' values,
home, energy?
Soon we will publish a video about cars, etc., in dreams. But in the
meantime, check out Tapes I and II; you will
find some general guidelines for working with your dreams.
Thank you for sharing your dream! DreamWeavers
Why a nun and not a priest? Write down five or six associations you
have with "nun" and "priest". How are you like a nun
at this specific time in your life? What is going on in your conscious
life in which you may be acting like what you wrote down as your associations
with "nun"? The nun has a dagger...What do you associate with
dagger? an instrument with which to kill? an instrument with which to fight?
an instrument for opening or penetrating something? The basement is usually
the symbol of the unconscious in our dreams..the place where things are
stored and kept underground. You mentioned that your fiance had just left
on the morning that you had this dream; might the dream speak to some conflict
in you about your religious training and your instinctive life, your sexuality?
What is the "dark force" which you meet in the basement? You
know instinctively, you say, that it will not hurt you, that you will be
less fragmented if you face it, let it in. And yet it seems so foreboding.
The psyche pushes us toward wholeness, toward accepting our sexuality as
well as our spirituality. Often we ignore, or repress one or the other
of these energies and relegate the other to the "basement" as
it were. Then it comes at us like a dark, evil force threatening our stability.
Perhaps you can examine these opposites in yourself. Remember that feelings
are not behavior. One can own certain feelings and impulses and still have
a choice about one's actions. It is so hard to struggle between the opposites
and find a right relationship to spirit and body. Your bodily reaction
in the dream to the "dark force" indicates that you have enormous
affect when meeting this energy. Hold that affect, feeling, and ask the
force what it wants of you. The cross beside you is a symbol of the tension
of the opposites. The stories of Christ tell of him as someone who could
hold that tension and transcend it. Could you write a dialogue between
the nun and the dark force? You will find further help about this struggle
in our newest tape, The Alchemy of Relationship
as well as general information about working with your dreams as a part
of your spiritual practice in Tapes I and II.
Thank you for sharing your dream! DreamWeavers
What a frightening dream! First of all, do you have any personal experiences,
memories or particular feelings about "a deep body of water"?
Substitute these associations in the dream and you will see what you may
have fallen into. "A deep body of water " generally (archetypally)
symbolizes the Unconscious itself. From the archetypal viewpoint, you might
ask: in what way in my life right now have I fallen (or been pushed) into
the Unconscious? The other problem in the dream is that you cannot find
"the bottom". We use metaphors like: bottoming out, hit bottom.
Since you cannot find a bottom, it is as if you cannot find your baseline
. . what grounds you. Consider what your "bottom line" might
be. What do you know without a doubt? There ar e times in our lives when
there is no "bottom", when there is nothing which seems to hold
us. Remembering and recording one's dreams is a slow and tedious process,
but eventually one begins to find one's own ground of Being, one's own
"bottom". Keep it up!
You will find specific steps for finding meaning in this and other
dreams in Tapes I and II. You might also enjoy
Women in Women's Dreams, since water has to do
with feminine consciousness as well.
Thank you for sharing your dream! DreamWeavers
I'm struck by your feeling about the ants . . their "repulsive
harmlessness". You might explore your feelings about harmlessness
. . lack of aggression . . , and about natural beings like ants. Underline
the significant elements in the dream, i.e.: ants, brother, spider. Write
your personal associations to each of these dream images. What is your
experience, your memory, your feeling about "ants", "brother",
"spider"? Now substitute these associations for the dream images.
Does any sense of understan ding about yourself emerge? Examine your life
context. What is going on in your life right now that this dream might
speak to?
Archetypally, ants and spiders are "just so" in nature and
they represent specific and important feminine qualities. Ants clean up
messes, quietly and orderly. Spiders weave webs of beauty, intrigue, and
purpose. They both sting!! Read Eric Neumann's book Amor and Psyche,
an interpretation of the myth, showing a women's journey toward consciousness.
You will find Tape III, Women in Women's Dreams,
to be helpful in exploring issues of particular concern to women seeking
consciousness. Many women find it very difficult to value themselves and
their own way of knowing and bein g in a culture which is so masculinely
oriented as ours. The feminine principle, whether woman, ant, or spider,
is denigrated and despised. In our efforts to find recognition and value,
we often join the cultural dominant and "kill off" (as in your
dream ) our deepest instinctual roots.
Hoping you find a satisfying and life-giving relationship to your ant
and spider nature.
Thank you for sharing your dream! DreamWeavers
The basic conflict in your dream seems to be between feelings of fear
and feelings of safety. What are your personal associations to the "rough
river" and "many sharp rocks"? What are your feelings, your
memories, your experiences about such a river? W hat do you actually feel
about your husband and his ability to protect you, or your need for his
protection? Metaphorically we speak of the "river of life". Might
you have some fears about "jumping into" life and hopes that
your husband will make it saf e for you?
Such a dream might help you develop more confidence in yourself as
you ponder your fears and your own competencies to deal with "rough
waters". Writing your associations and feelings about the river and
about yourself and your husband will enlarge your co nsciousness about
yourself and your expectations as well as invite more dreams for your development.
Dreamwork is slow and hard and sometimes frightening like your river, but
it can also become an "inner husband" who embraces you and carries
you safely t hrough life, on whom you can always depend.
There is an abundance of information you might find helpful in Tape
IV, Men in Women's Dreams. It is so easy for us to project our inner
masculine (the men in your dreams) onto our husbands and then be angry
and disappointed whe n they do not live up to our expectations. Through
relating to your dreams, you can develop a relationship with your own inner
husband and free your marriage for loving and respectful interaction.
Thank you for sharing your dream! DreamWeavers
Your imagination in the dream is an impressive warning and planning
system. Do you often prepare for danger by imagining consequences and preparations
to avert them? What personal associations do you make to "husband",
"dogs", "white wooden house", "ris ing water"?
What is the context of the dream? What is going on in your waking life
at this time? What threatens to "flood" you? Archetypally, "water"
is the Unconscious itself; it is feeling, emotion; it is the feminine principal.
Also, dogs are guid es for souls in archetypal language. The dream says
"a huge wall of water" is coming . . . you are preparing for
a flood of feeling, an onslaught of emotion which you have been repressing
so that it has accumulated in a "huge wall". It threatens your
de epest instinctive connection (the dogs).
Your pain and grief about the dogs can put you in touch with your emotions.
You might hold your dogs closely and tell them about your feelings. You
might write or paint about what you are feeling. Some people can release
emotion when confiding in a fri end. Many tears can dissolve the wall and
avert the flood which threatens you.
Such a warning dream is a gift of wisdom to a dreamer who pays attention.
The unconscious becomes a trusted daily guide.
Thank you for sharing your dream! DreamWeavers
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